our culture, our art, ourselves
nate barron
My style is a combination of me, all of me. I journeyed through life, heartache, and joys to find it, or more accurately, to develop it. I learned that I didn’t need just one style. It takes a plethora of fashions to fit my moods, my surroundings, and my community. During my stay in New Orleans, I have come across so many examples of authenticity. It is on the walls, in bookstores, in the faces I pass. Being queer and Black is being authentic, resilient, and unapologetic. Clothes have no gender. The wearer’s personality is the final accessory to any outfit. Be authentic.
Comfort starts at home. When I acquire a new garment or want to try a new combination, I like to break it in at home. It’s like new shoes. The more you wear it, the more it molds to you. I don’t want my outfits to feel like costumes. While at the house, I can adjust, look in the mirror, strike a pose, or put on makeup. Whatever helps me feel comfortable and confident. Whatever helps me feel like one of the versions of myself.
At times, my choice of clothing contrasts with society's expectations. Style is artistry. I am an artist. Just one accessory can make a statement; can display personality. It can highlight who you are or who you are growing into. Seasons and surroundings can change. Change is natural. Who you are today does not have to be who you are tomorrow. Even wearing your favorite socks can change your step.
One of the biggest concerns I hear when advising folks about androgynous dress is confidence in their body shape. Black queer excellence is giving body and face. When I get dressed in the morning, I pick one thing I want to highlight. It can be a bowtie, a hat, or even my smile. I build my outfit around that one thing because that one article of clothing or physical element is a battery. It charges my feelings for the day, radiates through the rest of my outfit, and develops my confidence in myself. I sometimes pick necktie knots I want to try or earrings that add that sparkle. The rest of my outfit and body are just the supporting cast.
I want to be loud and proud but also strong and silent. Being bold doesn’t mean being gaudy. I want my look to blend into my soul. I am not dressing for attention but for my authentic self. I appreciate when I walk by someone that compliments my look and the person that says nothing. That obviously means they can’t put me into words! I want my internal monologue to be seen. I’m an experience.
Complexity is in the details. I started elevating my style by adding one or two accessories at a time. Adding suspenders over a T-shirt and jeans can add an additional element. Even changing shoelaces can feel like a development. Don’t try to change your wardrobe all at once. Let it grow with you. Elevate and replace your clothing one at a time.
Don’t take yourself too seriously. Being goofy allows room for error and can present new opportunities to further your understanding of your style. Take your look for a stroll. Take a walk and strike a pose!
Start the day feeling accomplished by setting the tone for the day. When I take the time to put a little extra effort into my dress and grooming, I feel it! I go out, I am more productive, I am more complete. Life can take a toll on our productivity and time. Self-care can be anything that puts a smile on your face. For me, it’s a hat! Take time to smile about your clothes.
The city of New Orleans allows its people to celebrate diversity. Growth comes from experience and experimenting. Life and love are great motivations to pursue many passions. Be bold and experimental. A toast to diversity.
about the artist
Nate Barron (she/he) is a Black enthusiast of dapper dress and lifestyle. She interprets “dapper” through the lens of Black queerness and excellence. Her everyday look consists of traditional pieces displayed in a non traditional way to showcase her authentic self.